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Lets talk about ''friends''

Made by Diamonbreeze in Wisdom

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1st January 2015, 06:46 PM

Let's talk about friends in real life and in virtual life.

Real life friends
On real life we can have many friends, but some aren't actual friend, how? Let's say that I'm in a hospital (Just an example) and I need my friends to be with me. Will all my friends be there? The answer is no, why?

Because they are friends just because I was fine at the moment, but in the hour of truth they're not there when I need them. We're sad and frustrated at first, but later on we see that they're never do anything good for us and make things worse. You may have a thousands friends, but only a few are with you.

Virtual friends
Most hospital may have WiFi and you could get on a website just to tell your friends to be in the hospital, but do they all believe you? The answer is no, but why? Because we all know that people may lie just to get attention and they start asking you a ton of stuff just to see if it's true. And when you tell them specific information then they believe you.

Virtual friends are way different compared to the friends that we make in real life. I for one is always online on Oldcp late at night for me, why? Because at the daylight I'm with my friends and at night I'm with all of you. Everything in life needs a health balance so we wont be confused or hurt anyone in the process. But lately the electronics have been taking over us and just like a post that someone made which is called ''Look up ~ Jilly'' is very true.

I hope that this made you realize more about friends that you already know and helped you see who's your true friend after all. Just remember that everything in life needs a balance and that true friends are few and very rare to find.
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1st January 2015, 06:49 PM

You didn't discuss what a true friend is. You just said what it isn't.
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1st January 2015, 06:52 PM

I said stuff to make you realize who is your true friend and who is not. Finding out who and what is it that's not up to me. It's for you to find out.
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1st January 2015, 06:54 PM

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I said stuff to make you realize who is your true friend and who is not. Finding out who and what is it that's not up to me. It's for you to find out.
I can't figure it out.
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1st January 2015, 06:56 PM

Put it this way... Who is always there when you need them the most? And it may be the person who you always fought or not. It could be the person who you never though because you don't have many stuff in common or not.
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1st January 2015, 06:57 PM

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Put it this way... Who is always there when you need them the most? And it may be the person who you always fought or not. And it could be the person who you never though because you don't have many stuff in common or not.
Nobody.
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1st January 2015, 07:01 PM

Then it means that you been going further and deeper into ocean, but the true friend that you're looking for isn't so far if you trust your heart to lead you to the true friend that you been looking for.
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1st January 2015, 07:03 PM

When I broke my collarbone, my best friend went with me. When she broke her foot, I went to the hospital with her. Those moments, I realized we're true friends.
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1st January 2015, 07:05 PM

And you stay like that forever because true friends are always together even when they're far away.
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1st January 2015, 07:06 PM

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And you stay like that forever because true friends are always together even when they're far away.
Nope.
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1st January 2015, 07:11 PM

See, Rebecca, you didn't understand what I said or meant. *sighs* What I meant by ''...true friends are always together even when they're far away'' was that if you believe in your heart then you and your true friend will always find away to get back together. We each become a part of the heart of our true friends as they become a part of us.
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1st January 2015, 07:14 PM

I understood, it's just not true. For me, at least.
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1st January 2015, 07:17 PM

That's because you haven't found your true friend, yet. Just believe in your heart and try to reach out a bit more because the people that been trying to be your friend and you said no to... Could had been the true friend you been looking for all these time.
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1st January 2015, 07:22 PM

I've never said no. I've always accepted everyone as a friend, but in real life I have nobody anymore, and on here, people only accepted me for smiling.
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1st January 2015, 07:27 PM

Everything takes time and have a purpose, so trust me. You'll find your true friend when you least expect it to happen and then you'll see things more clearly. And on here I can't say the same thing because on here everyone has a different opinion and their opinion could affect you when you try to make friends with others.
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