14th February 2015
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When Opinions Must be Said

Made by May23 in Wisdom

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14th February 2015, 07:50 PM

Greetings readers,
Many times in the past, people have rebuked the sentence, "Am I not allowed to state my opinion?" The answer to that dubious question is yes, you may.

Before I continue I would just like to state this discussion was not written after an argument of such demeanor. I was simply comprehending a topic to post, and this came to my mind.

Yes, you may say your opinions. I have seen many people complain about the fact that they get complaints themselves when they state their own opinions, or that they get in trouble for such actions. But, before ever speaking your mind, you should question yourself..

"Is this really worth clamoring about?"
"Will this hurt anyone's feelings?"
"What are the possible outcomes of my words?"
"Does this really need to be said, or can I just keep it to myself?"
"Should I say it, or would it be most wise to keep it inside?"

These questions are crucial, for not thinking it through may lead you straight into problems. You may have heard the statement, "Think before your speak." And that should apply here. Think before you type, or hit "post".

Another thing you must comprehend is how to write your opinion. There is a difference, and a great one at that. Flatly stating your opinion may be less time consuming for you, but many times just blurting it out can make you seem like a fool, or may get you into trouble for it's contents. If you want to write an opinion that will most likely be respected, try to write it well. Let us see some examples.

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In my opinion, I think you should fix your grammar because it really sucks. Also, this post is pointless and stupid, it should be a mood.
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In my personal opinion, I believe you should work on your grammar. I am not pushing you too, but your posts would be much more enjoyable to read. This post would also benefit you more in a mood. But, short posts are allowed so it is alright.

Which one is stated better, and less likely to offend someone? The second. You don't need to say this opinion at all, but as you can see, re-wording your opinions do make an impact at how they are looked at.

Overall, I believe that opinions can definitely be said. Though, it really depends on how you write it and express it. There is a difference between an opinion, and simply being rude. You should also think of the outcomes of what you may say, before posting. I believe everyone should follow the Golden Rule in every aspect- treat others how you would like to be treated. Respect others even though they may not respect you.

Thank you for taking the time to view my discussion, and I truly hope you discovered it to be somewhat useful to you.

Your DSGHQ Moderator,

~ May23
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+1 by Jake01, mags, TwentyTwoPilots, Swirlie and 8 others

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14th February 2015, 07:54 PM

Yep. Very hurtful opinions could sometime kill people too. +1

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14th February 2015, 07:54 PM

Great. Just great. Now users would be more formal and kind whenever they
say a piece of their mind.
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+1 by May23

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14th February 2015, 07:56 PM

I truly believe that if you want to share your opinion, you should share it in a nice way that could not offend other fellow users.

"If you do not have anything nice to say, do not say anything at all."

+1 for you, May! This is very wise.
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14th February 2015, 07:56 PM

Wow. Is all I can say 1+
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+1 by May23
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14th February 2015, 07:59 PM

Words kill no one; their actions do. So they don't like something you said and have been having a hard time, and they are the ones who kill themselves. Its the easy way out, and I'm against it. It shouldn't matter what the other person says, you should have enough endurance/maturity to do what's right. WHICH ISNT SUICIDE! I used to be suicidal, but I got out of it. If you're worried enough about someone's words that you'd end yourself over them, you just shouldn't be talking to people. And if they start a conversation with you, just ignore them; don't pay their words any mind. Its not impossible, but there's maturity that goes in with that as well. I know I can't talk about maturity, in no way can I judge those who are immature. But I do expect all of you to be better than me, cuz you are.
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14th February 2015, 08:05 PM

Great for young kids to learn how to respect others using these forums.if this post existed in 2003 you couldve probably inspired multiple kids(including me) that use social media.
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+1 by May23
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14th February 2015, 08:09 PM

Yeah. A certain someone stated their rude opinions in my master post
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14th February 2015, 08:46 PM

May, you are 100.1.1.1% right. I am very thankful you posted this. +1
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14th February 2015, 08:52 PM

Splendid post, May. I agree with you completely. You are certainly allowed to state your opinion, but it is a different story when you say it with maturity like you have shown us above. It causes less drama in this community, and it is just polite. I suggest that you all listen to what May is saying to you, because in this subject she is completely right. :)
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14th February 2015, 09:37 PM

Words of wisdom, this is a great post to teach young users how to respect each other o the forums
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15th February 2015, 01:46 AM

Very great wise words May, and yes, sometimes opinions can affect someone. Very wise post but true in the sametime +1

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15th February 2015, 01:48 AM

Nice post... Uh, I 100% agree with you.

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