Hello DSGHQ Community.


Honestly, I don't know if this is the right category to post this. Sorry if I made a mistake. Oops...


I wanted to get something out of my chest and I believe that this is the right time to do this.


You may know me as an energetic, nice, loving user here. That's not the truth.


In this post, I'll be telling you what's behind the scenes.


Recently, I've been sad for little reasons.


For example, I've been sad today because I felt like I was alone at school...


This problem lasted about 5 months ago. I've been asking questions about myself such as, "What is life? Am I worth it?." and statements such as, "I'm ugly. I'm stupid. etc...."


This may sounds like this is stupid, but it's the truth...


The problem with me was that I always wanted to fit in with the "cool" kids. Who doesn't want to be alone?


In real life, I've been worried about many stuff. From this worsens, I've been acting someone who I'm not. I want to show the real me, but people doesn't appreciate that. During school, I have no one to talk to and I'm invisible for the whole time.


I learned many stuff through this experience. I realized that I shouldn't worry about what other people think of me. It's hard not to think about that. Especially to me. I was always the self-conscious and shy girl who is afraid of being humiliating in front of the "popular" people.


I bet some of you have felt this before too... Some of you may know this problem, it's called, "Depression."

My Message

It's okay to be different. There is going to be a time in your life when somebody dislikes you. Everyone in this world gets disliked by someone. You shouldn't think too hard about what people are thinking about you. Just be you. This is why I'm part of this community. To chat with people online with the same problems that I'm experiencing. I have no words.


I'm touched by every compliment that I've ever received. I've starting this thing called, "Hello Beautiful People," because I want people to know that they are wonderful and fantastic. I'm literally crying while writing this because it brings back so many memories.


Don't feel sad. Stay strong. You can do anything if you try. :')

In closure, I would want to say one of my favorite quotes.


"Don't cross your arms, instead open your heart." : )


Thank You! < 3

I'm confused. You said you're lonely at school and your sad about that. And then you said you are a loner, which is differently from the word "lonely", and it means that you prefer to not communicate with other people.

This moved me. I experienced that too, and I understand how you feel. If you ever need anything, anything at all, please, don't hesitate to ask me for help.

-Allie

Rebecca wrote on 11th March 2015 09:12 PM:

I'm confused. You said you're lonely at school and your sad about that. And then you said you are a loner, which is differently from the word "lonely", and it means that you prefer to not communicate with other people.

Oh. I'll edit my post! Thanks for letting me know

Coffee...

"Life is about courage and going into the unknown."

My dear,
Life is something un predicable. Nobody can quite know what is going to made of it. It is your recipe, and it can either be good or bad. Whatever you do in life goes into this recipe. Being lonely is sometimes tough on someone, and I understand that. However be the outcast. Don't get me wrong though, be heard. But before you get heard surprise them *smirks*. You get one life to molt you see, and I hate the quote "YOLO" because it's not quite true. However let me rephrase the "YOLO" you only live once to molt a life. Do whatever is right. This is your life not mine or anybody else's. Be who you want to be, and be whoever you believe in being.

I'm not very social in the real world as well. I really only talk to people at school, but not outside of that. Since I'm in high school and approaching college, I predict that in college I'll be able to start my social life over and make a ton of friends. Maybe this will be the same for you, whether it's middle school, high school, or college that is coming up.

ik exactly how you feel when i was the new girl to my school people would bully me
but then i showed my real self no matter what anyone said or thought and now
ppl in my school act like complete dreps but then a few days later i became the girl
in school who was well thats just say a sonic fan heh lol but this was a really good post

Dear,Coffee

You should read your message.You know how to fix this problem, you just didn't notice.

Then ignore them, I guess.

that is a way but some people would
perfer telling a parent or tell a teacher or the prencibal

They aren't really the "cool kids". They're really just spoiled brats.

Coffee, I sometimes feel the same way at school as you do. For example, today this girl Elicia, said I was weird because i'm left handed, then everyone laughed at me because she screamed it.. My Mom said i'm special because not many people are left handed.
Your friend, Katie

Coffee you should never feel down about yourself, and should never change yourself to meet peoples expectations of you, Be yourself, be original and find your own way of fitting in

CoffeeCow wrote on 11th March 2015 09:06 PM:

Hello DSGHQ Community.


Honestly, I don't know if this is the right category to post this. Sorry if I made a mistake. Oops...


I wanted to get something out of my chest and I believe that this is the right time to do this.


You may know me as an energetic, nice, loving user here. That's not the truth.


In this post, I'll be telling you what's behind the scenes.


Recently, I've been sad for little reasons.


For example, I've been sad today because I felt like I was alone at school...


This problem lasted about 5 months ago. I've been asking questions about myself such as, "What is life? Am I worth it?." and statements such as, "I'm ugly. I'm stupid. etc...."


This may sounds like this is stupid, but it's the truth...


The problem with me was that I always wanted to fit in with the "cool" kids. Who doesn't want to be alone?


In real life, I've been worried about many stuff. From this worsens, I've been acting someone who I'm not. I want to show the real me, but people doesn't appreciate that. During school, I have no one to talk to and I'm invisible for the whole time.


I learned many stuff through this experience. I realized that I shouldn't worry about what other people think of me. It's hard not to think about that. Especially to me. I was always the self-conscious and shy girl who is afraid of being humiliating in front of the "popular" people.


I bet some of you have felt this before too... Some of you may know this problem, it's called, "Depression."

My Message

It's okay to be different. There is going to be a time in your life when somebody dislikes you. Everyone in this world gets disliked by someone. You shouldn't think too hard about what people are thinking about you. Just be you. This is why I'm part of this community. To chat with people online with the same problems that I'm experiencing. I have no words.


I'm touched by every compliment that I've ever received. I've starting this thing called, "Hello Beautiful People," because I want people to know that they are wonderful and fantastic. I'm literally crying while writing this because it brings back so many memories.


Don't feel sad. Stay strong. You can do anything if you try. :')

In closure, I would want to say one of my favorite quotes.


"Don't cross your arms, instead open your heart." : )


Thank You! < 3

Coffee I will slap your frown of your face pick it up and make it a smile!

~A minecraft loving friend