When you are a human, there will be times when you feel horrible and that you feel as if shouldn't even exist. I am not going to say "Just keep trying, you can do it!" because we all know it doesn't actually make you feel better when you feel so bad. This is about why it's okay to be upset, and why you are, and not that you should just simply "never give up".

I am not going to say that Life is rain but there are rainbows. Let's stop talking about what I will not say, and more about what I will say.

Life can suck. Majorly. There are times when you feel as if you are being ripped up into little shreds. And that is okay. Why, you ask?

Those moments when life is destroying you, you are still there. You may not feel the best, but you are living through each second, going on in life. You may think, "Go on in the journey of life.. blah blah blah, we already know this". This isn't that. This is saying that every second you are feeling awful, time is passing. Moving, moving to the future.

You are getting stronger. Why? You went through another tough one. You kicked butt. You conquered your bad feelings by living through them. So what you didn't act like a perfect person? Who cares? I don't. You made it, and that is pretty awesome of you. You may think "Are you crazy?!" I am not, I am just telling the truth.

When I go through tough times, I hate the "You'll get all better soon!" stuff. Why? The answer is because I am upset. Nothing can make me feel better. Then time passes. I am still upset. But guess what? Another minute of victory was made! I felt my feelings!

We are allowed to act our feelings! We are allowed to be sad, mope, sulk, shout, it's how we feel! And then it's over. And you, we won. There is a reaction to all actions and an action to all reactions. But you made it. You rock! You are you. Do whatever you feel, just know that each reaction has an action and each action has a reaction. You rule!

-Allie