15th December 2013
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Fights Should Be In PM

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15th December 2013, 03:45 PM

Hey everyone, it's me King, I was wondering, you know how back then Hashtagfood and Tornado were having a fight? Well, they were doing it in the middle of random discussions! Don't you think fights should be in PM? I think the whole point of PM is to talk in PRIVATE. And fights should be PRIVATE!!! Just because you and your friend are having a fight, doesn't mean you have to expose it to the entire community. You can keep fighting if you're so eager, just don't expose it to everyone. Try to keep it a secret. Roots of fights are in discussions, because that's how fights START. Someone posts something in a discussion which another user tries to make an argument over. So the roots of fights are hopeless, they must be in discussions. But don't CONTINUE the fights in an "exposed" way! Keep the fights private. We don't know if some fights already were through PM, because we can't check others' PM messages. But, we still know that there are a lot of fights in discussions, which should be moved to the users' PM. I think fights are ruining the OldCP Forum. My username on the Forum is "King" so I shall act like a "King". I shall take care of this forum very welly and let no harm come across it. Public fights are causing VERY bad things. Sometimes it's suicide, sometimes it's quitting, sometimes it's sadness, sometimes it's banning, sometimes it's demoting. I don't think any of that should happen! I want to treat this Forum respectfully as it's Owner treats us. We shall not cause him to think that the Forum is full of fighting and drama, we should keep those fights in PRIVATE. Public Fights are what's causing the Forum to get ruined. I can't quit it, because the Forum is just a big part of my life, I can't quit it. I just possibly CANNOT. But, other people just have the nerve to quit such a wonderful thing. They just make a discussion in the "Introductions and Leaving" category saying "Goodbye" or "Quitting" and then they wait 'til people put a lot of likes on that discussion, so then they have a bunch of reputation, and then the user quits. Anyway, all this drama is being caused because of Public Drama!!! Everyone chooses to expose everything, which is wrong. They post in the "Reports" category saying a user is "spamming" dislikes on their posts. That causes drama. Plus, why can't you just PM them and say "Please stop spamming dislikes on my posts." and the drama can be private! No need to expose it! Exposing drama is the worst thing that ever happened to this Forum.

My username means something. I am "King" because I treat this Forum carefully and cautiously. I take care of it greatly.

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Please understand, all you Public-Drama-Users.
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15th December 2013, 03:46 PM

Well if they where in a Private Message then moderators could not catch them being bad. But, I think they should honestly save it.
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15th December 2013, 03:50 PM

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Well if they where in a Private Message then moderators could not catch them being bad. But, I think they should honestly save it.

I don't know. But what do you mean "they should honestly save it"?
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15th December 2013, 03:53 PM

Fights should be in pm because if it is exposed to the community more drama occurs. Would you rather have little drama or big drama. Think Unbreakable I know you are new to the community but Think!
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15th December 2013, 03:56 PM

Tornado and Hashtagfood fight was mostly Tornado and Pandaluver my sister. Since I WAS pandauversister sorry about that.
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15th December 2013, 03:57 PM

I meant save there thoughts to there selves and save the fights.
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15th December 2013, 03:58 PM

Yes King I agree. Some of my friends actually quit because of all the drama. The drama has died down a little though.
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15th December 2013, 04:00 PM

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Yes King I agree. Some of my friends actually quit because of all the drama. The drama has died down a little though.

Yes I know, the good part is the drama died.
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